I was always interested in human behavior which is why I found Psychology my focus in school. Having two sons on the autistic spectrum took me to a very personal level. At the age of six months, my first son exhibited behaviors unlike their peers. Autism was just becoming a research topic. I knew I had to find out more! As a mom who has a child with a disability, I went into overdrive to advocate for him!
Thus, my journey began. My son was assessed at The University of Pittsburgh which confirmed delays in his development. As he entered school there was additional testing. My first exposure to individual education plans was a scheduled school meeting. I entered the room with a table surrounded by professionals. The setting was so unexpected and dramatic to me that I broke down! It was a crucial step to get additional assistance and very cathartic for me.
At that time, I was a realtor and took them to the office where they enjoyed snacking and drawing as I completed my tasks. Art classes followed and continued throughout their lives. In high school, they needed volunteer work to complete admission to Florida Bright Future Scholarships. They also needed socialization skills. They volunteered at The Florida Aquarium for approximately four years which led to their first job at Mercedes Benz Company. At the time, my husband was working as a manager at a restaurant. He was interested in a group that would meet at his store. They were adults with children on the autistic spectrum. Curious, he wanted to know more. Their discussion addressed a new coffee shop that was employing young adults on the spectrum. Our sons participated in interviews and got the job! What followed was a memorable experience as seen in the previous videos.
My story has become a transformative experience. Over the years, I have developed a deeper appreciation for adaptability and the beauty of celebrating differences. Working with families and individuals on the spectrum has opened my eyes to incredible potential within every person, given the right environment and encouragement. Such is the is the story of J, a twenty-six-yearold adult on the autistic spectrum with additional challenges. I was hired by his family to find developmental programs for him. I discovered his strength was eye, hand, and ball coordination. My search led me to incredible services and enthusiastic people who inspire. Over the past three years I am proud to say that he has lost fifty pounds and achieved victory with a gold medal in tennis at The Special Olympic competition in Orlando Florida.
These moments of growth, whether through art, sports, hobbies, or professional opportunities, underscore the importance of building supportive networks and fostering inclusion. Autism has taught me that strength can be found in unexpected places, and that growth often happens when one feels SEEN, VALUED, and UNDERSTOOD.
Today, as I reflect on the path my family has walked, I feel a sense of fulfillment knowing that our story might inspire others to persevere, embrace creativity, and redefine possibilities. Autism may have been the starting point, but the journey has become so much more-one of connection, empowerment, and joy of seeing the potential of others on the spectrum transform.
I look forward to hearing your journeys and working together to assist others on the spectrum!
